I hate wasps & spiders!

I really don't know why God invented this frightening creatures, I'm sure He had a plan. Well, yesterday just when I was about to snooze a little while Brayden was snoozing in his swing...I heard a buzz! I looked up...oh my goodness...a wasp! How did that get in my apt?! Then I thought about how my mom was just in town and goes out to the balcony to smoke and it might have got in that way. Well, I called Mark all scared and ofcourse he couldn't do anything because he was at work. So, I grabbed my Anthem Benefits booklet --it's think. I don't really care for Anthem, but they helped on this one! :) Anyway, ...Wack! I got it. It was still twitching. So, I opened up the patio door to try to fling it outside only to see what I thought was a brown reclus spider...later after Mark seen it he said it wasn't. Anyway, I thought that is it! I'm bringing on the Raid! Mark really doesn't want me spraying it in the house eventhough it says for household use. He's just looking out for Brayden. Since I still had the patio door open I sprayed the spider and still twitching wasp. Finally, they were dead! Then I went to close the patio door and in came a fly. I thought oh well, just a fly and shut the door. Then, I go back to the couch to try to nap...and buzz buzz...oh it's just the peske fly... buzz buzz...ok fly you are really starting to annoy me...oh my! Not a fly...another wasp! How in the heck did two get in here?! Well, I call back Mark and he said to leave the apt. Well, it was 4 and Mark gets home at 5:30pm. So, where am I going to go? So, I called a lot of friends on the eastside and finally got a hold someone. I didn't want to drive to the westside or mt. vernon 'cause as soon as I would get there I would just turn around and come home. So, I got a hold of Kent & Katrina Starnes. They said it was cool for me to come over and then they invited Mark to come over after he got off of work for dinner...how awesome was that! Here we are imposing on their family and they opened up their home and food! We are blessed with having them as good friends. And here I was just thinking...I really don't have girlfriends...well, I do, but not a 1 BF here in E'ville. I thought that one of my friends was starting to get that way, but it doesn't seem like that anymore. I'm not sure what happened with us..it's just different. I wish we could hang out more, but she's busy a lot and if she's not busy she's with her Boyfriend, but I miss hanging out with them both and also our girl times. Oh well. I just really wish that I was one BF down here to go to in time of need and know that they will be there no matter what. But since my Indy / Childhood BF's live in 3 diff. states and my BF that was down here went to Bible School in MI--I have felt a little lonely. All girls need that 1 girl to go to no matter what! I am going to pray that God will bring someone to me 'cause I feel like I've been searching ever since Laura B. left and I need God to bring her to me.